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Thursday, May 27, 2010

SMART Principal@UM

The notion of using the SMART principle as a general guide for setting financial goals has been around for years. Each letter represents a key word that distinguishes good financial goal setting from bad:

S - Specificity. Setting a good financial goal means being very specific about what you want, not general. If you want to move somewhere for your retirement: precisely where and under what circumstances? If you want to send your child to college: what type of college, for how long, and what expenses are you willing to cover? Setting specific financial goals is vital to realistically planning to meet these goals.

M - Measurability. Properly setting financial goals means setting a goal you can actively measure. This ties into specificity, but also means it is something that you can routinely go back check to ensure that your original targets are still suitable for achieving the goal in the desired time frame. Being able to accurately measure your goals is essential for creating a viable plan for accomplishing them.

A - Achievability. When setting financial goals, it is important to set ones that are realistic and achievable. Achievability is relative, what may be a realistic goal for a multimillionaire probably is not realistic for a shop clerk making minimum wage. Both of these people can - and should - set financial goals, but what each can achieve is radically different based on their circumstances.

R - Rewarding. Your financial goals should reflect things that you sincerely want, that is, a good financial goal should be its own reward. The time and resources expended to accomplish serious long-term goals demand that you really want them. If you do not, it will be next to impossible to maintain the discipline required to actually achieve them. Achieving your financial goal should be its own reward.

T - Traceability. You should be able to effectively trace the path to achieving a good financial goal. Beyond simply measuring what is required, your have to be able to trace a course of action that steadily moves you closer to success. Tracing your path to success, and reassessing this path regularly, will ensure that you are still on target. Or, if not, will at least highlight that it is time to take corrective measures.
The SMART principle, described above, is a nifty little associative device that can help with setting financial goals. Any financial goal model that does not meet these requirements is probably a bad idea and should be reconsidered.

制定目标看似一件简单的事情,每个人都有过制定目标的经历,但是如果上升到技术的层面,必须学习并掌握SMART原则。
  所谓SMART原则,SMART是5个英文单词首字母的缩写:
S 就是 specific :意思是设定绩效考核目标的时候,一定要具体——也就是目标的法则。
M 就是 measurable :就是目标要可衡量,要量化。
A 就是 attainable : 即设定的目标要高,有挑战性,但是一定要是可达成的。
R 就是 relevant : 设定的目标要和该岗位的工作职责相关联。
T 就是 time-based : 对设定的目标,要规定什么时间内达成。
特别注明:有的又如此解释此原则
——S代表具体(Specific),指绩效考核要切中特定的工作指标,不能笼统;
——M代表可度量(Measurable),指绩效指标是数量化或者行为化的,验证这些绩效指标的数据或者信息是可以获得的;
——A代表可实现(Attainable),指绩效指标在付出努力的情况下可以实现,避免设立过高或过低的目标;
——R代表现实性(Realistic),指绩效指标是实实在在的,可以证明和观察;
  ——T代表有时限(Time bound),注重完成绩效指标的特定期限

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish






I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I’ve ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That’s it. No big deal. Just three stories.

The first story is about connecting the dots.

I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?

It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: “We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?” They said: “Of course.” My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.

And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents’ savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn’t see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn’t interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.

It wasn’t all romantic. I didn’t have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends’ rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:

Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn’t have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can’t capture, and I found it fascinating.

None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.

Again, you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

My second story is about love and loss.

I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.

I really didn’t know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.

I didn’t see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.

During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple’s current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.

I’m pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn’t been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don’t lose faith. I’m convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You’ve got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle.

My third story is about death.

When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: “If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you’ll most certainly be right.” It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?” And whenever the answer has been “No” for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.

Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn’t even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor’s code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you’d have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.

I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I’m fine now.

This was the closest I’ve been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:

No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don’t want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life’s change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.

Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960’s, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.

Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: “Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.” It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.

Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish

Saturday, May 15, 2010

Pik-Pak-Boom

Pik-Pak-Boom

This Wednesday was a busy but enjoyable day^_^

In the morning, James and I, for the first time, made a combination as MC group. The experience was totally cute. We shared same characteristics as being energetic and passionate. Therefore, both of us would like to rock the introduction part of HC.
At the beginning, he’s kind of afraid of the formality and turned down my suggestion to add some interaction parts to break the ice. However, as time went on, we found dean himself would also like to make the participants involve in the whole process. We suddenly relaxed~ We even made jokes with the freshmen and dean ^O^

Both of us were high and even didn’t want to stop~~~HOHO
What’s more, some clubs where the freshmen belong to even want to invite us two as host/hostess for their upcoming event : )
Several of them even asked me for contact information and did communicate with me about the HC experience and application procedures for hours and hours….Although there days I am really busy, I enjoy myself being young and sharing with the youth…Giving is another way of receiving…Their happy and satisfied faces lighted up my sprits~~~
I’m enjoying it!

It was indeed an unforgettable day. We went to talk with our FBA coordinator for the exchange program. The description from Rico was so amazing that we all lost ourselves in the imagination about our life in US….Wow…Oh my, after New York, back to America, heading for Michigan…can’t help smiling sweetly…I enjoy travelling…enjoy being representative of our UM…enjoy making friends all over the world..Just enjoy it!!!

Just as if it was not enough, Professor brought an amazing activity called “Pik-Pak-Boom”-----Ohh…
Imaging that 3 girls holding hands together with one word for each at one time with a fast speed and cooperation~~
Although we were not the winners, because one of us made a small mistake, we enjoyed the game. We laughed to all, nicely joining our hands, feeling closer to each other than before and sharing the snacks altogher^3^

It’s really wonderful after all days with projects, presentations and tests.
Finally, with our HC family, with Professor Udani, with the lovely atmosphere, we enjoy ourselves simply being together…
Life returns to the starting point with peace and joy… and a serene mind…

I’m enjoying HC journey and I love my life~~~so lucky to be an HC member…See you guys, my little bros and sisters in HC~~

Sunday, May 9, 2010

WE CAN! We are Group A, We are group Blue



We are Group A, We are group Blue

----------------------------------Thanks to Professor Udani for the kind help ^O^
----------------------------------Thanks to dear all members of group B ^_^Y
----------------------------------Thanks to all the participants for your involvement :-)

The “CAN” workshop successfully proved that we “CAN”!

You are what you think. If you think you “CAN”, you can. If you think you cannot, then you cannot.

Actually, the not-so-perfect activities came out through a lot of discussion. For example, as Steve said, opinions might diverge greatly on the game design. We all intended to rock the freshmen and wanted them to enjoy most of our workshop. We came up with lots of intelligent plans for leadership discovery/development tasks. However, to choose only one instead of many was hard and tough. Everyone thought his/her idea suited best. The process was not enjoyable, choosing one instead of another hurts people’s feelings.
But, who cares!!!We share success and failure altogether!!!

I shared my AIESEC evaluation form and game book~~We are friends and we share resources!!!

As long as the result is good,(it was proven yesterday) all the members will be equally happy.

The feeling of belonging increases so much that we all actively share and commented on facebook. Even now, my mind is stilled occupied by the wonderful time spend with my Group A, and my facilitated Group Blue!

This time, I was a facilitator not the MC. My role was to stimulate all the activities we organized among the participants and help them solve possible obstacles in the way.

Carmen and I really enjoyed being with those 5 cute boys. At first, all of them were shy. They stared at the floor and didn’t talk. I found many of them were from FST, where students were too busy working on projects individually and might not good at communication. Realizing this character, I began to take coordinator role as an elder sister. I talked to them and encouraged them to communicate with each other. I refueled them during the ice-breaking part and smiled to them. They gradually relaxed themselves and began to unite together for all the tasks efficiently. Thereafter, I motivated every one of them to take the chance to stand in front of others and make their voices heard. And…The inner sleeping lions in their hearts were wake up and it was very likely that my passion and enthusiasm worked!!! They finally made it!!! What’s more, some of our members even spoke several times!!! ^O^

One boy told me, he never took leadership role when he was young. But, this time, he did it. His courage showed not only me but also all of our HC members that, he was able to become a real leader soon! I’m proud of you, TieNan.



The feeling of developing people makes me feel so happy and proud of myself, as one of the HC members, who are making their own efforts to make a positive impact towards all the participants!!!Servant Leader—I finally understand it!!!Helping others makes me feel really worthwhile as an elder sister. That’s why I didn’t even hesitate and volunteered to help HC family to conquer TOEFL. (After the workshop, I even received their thank you messages from facebook!!! You are so kind, dears!!!J I’m so happy…WOW)

I love the workshop, I love being with my Group A, I love our Group Blue!!!
I’ll keep working as a qualified elder sister, I promise to you all!!!


Friday, April 30, 2010

Tips For Improving Leadership Skills


Hey, HC Students! Here are 10 Principles Giselle finds useful in the Leadership Journey



“ Don't manage lead change before you have to.”  ---Jack Welch


Leadership1-10



1ClearVision 愿景




200% Passion热忱





3Win Situation三赢





4P Marketing



.Product

.Price

.Place

.Promotion






5 P Thinking

.P Thinking

.Positive

.Possible

.Practical

.Professional

.People-centric






6 Human Needs人类6大需要

.Certainty/Comfort 安全感

.Variety 新鲜感

.Significance 重要感

.Connection/Love 被爱(连系)感

.Growth 成长感

.Contribution 贡献感






7 Habits高效能人士的七种习惯

.Be Proactive 主动积极

.Begin with the End in Mind 以终为始

.First Things First 要事第一

.Win/Win 双赢思维

.Seek First to Understand, then to be   understood 知彼解己

.Synergy 统合综效

.Sharpen the Saw不断更新




8 Dimensions

.伴侣 Lovers

.家人 Family

.朋辈 Peers

.上司 Supervisors


.同事 Colleges

.客户 Clients

.贵人 Supporters

.敌人 Enemies



9 Quotients九大成功商数

.IQ = Intelligence Quotient

.EQ = Emotional Quotient

.AQ = Adversity Quotient

.CQ = Creative Quotient

.FQ = Financial Quotient

.SQ = Spiritual Quotient

.HQ = Health Quotient

.MQ = Moral Quotient

.WQ = Will Quotient



10 ~ ings十个不断


Keep Thanking
Keep Praising
Keep Learning
Keep Reading
Keep Self-examing
Keep Tring
Keep Repeating
Keep Growing
Keep Breaking Though
Keep Holding On


Wednesday, April 28, 2010

From “You” to “We”---HC Reflection

From “You” to “We”---HC Reflection


Recently, Wednesdays have been arranged with too many tests and quizzes. Performed really badly, because of my over-occupied mind, I decided to temporally quit all my activities and focus on the “fight” with this Wednesday’s economy mid-term to end up the nightmare of all my schoolwork with a happy ending. I became too nervous and upset, with the heart palpitating.


The day was totally messed up by the worried mind.


“Are you too busy or too serious to isolate yourself from others?”


Professor unexpectedly came up with such a question.


Wow! Too busy? Too serious? Is that me?!


Oh my! I was shocked…and afraid..


Originally, I thought those who got encouragement from friends were lucky dogs, who won the support and care from friends. However, as Professor said, another interpretation is, the person might be isolating himself or herself from the crowd, which makes their behavior eyes-catching.


Amazing! But it is also a possible rational thinking…then did it show I was the isolated person?! Oh my!


Thanks to Professor Udani’s “Thank-U Note”, my uneasy mind was finally disappear with such cute notes from my friends.


Although our experience or activities being together was different, they commented one thing in common---“thanks for your shiny smile to me and all of us”.


Wow, am I? ^_^


What they all loved is my smile and happy face! I thought I had lost them after recent sufferings in minds! Am I?


Cool! Thanks so much, my dears. U all are telling me that I am still me, Giselle, the optimistic girl with happy face, not the one who transfer sufferings and sad mood to peers!


I am still myself?!
You do raise me up, my dears, help me finding the person who I was and am and will keep being. I love You All!!!


The tight relations make us together, from “You” to “We”, from “Peers” to “Friends”, from “familiarity” to “friendship”… and our friendship will last long!


That the most important thing we gain from HC, the privilege to be friends with excellent persons in personality and academics; the privilege to build us a Team and a HC Family.


I think this is also the reason why Professor keeps inviting and proposing activities for HC family members to be together and social together to build up closer links!


Thanks to Professor Udani, we finally make it. We are family, we are together!
Thanks to you all and the happy journey with you all!



Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Reflection on HC class on April 20th


Today, Professor Udani showed us some collection of the students’ expectation at the beginning of this semester.
The expectation has three levels:

Cognitive Level
--It is more related to the minds development of us. Each one of us is supposed to give reflections of what they are performing or improving and maybe share it through blogs. In this way, we will be able to look back from the past and keep growing. 

Affective Level
--The leading question: How do u use your emotions? Are dominated by ur emotions, or u r so lucky to be the master of emotions?
These questions embarrassed me, when professor looked into my eyes and said, “u know I can easily know some of your emotions. They are just on ur face”. Oh my, indeed, I am the person, who doesn’t hide the all of my emotions. Sometime, even though I know the side effects, that is, leaving a poor impression of myself, I just let the emotion go. I am the one that is more likely to be impulsive. From the start point, I want to become more rational. But now…I still act as a child…What a shame on me…I have to change…T^T…

Behavioral Level
I swear I’ll put my feet on the ground!
As for improving communication skills, which the majority of us desire, it may be achieved on 4 aspects:

1—Reflection---the feeling or the gaining from music, videos
2---Awareness----aware of who u are
3—Acceptance---accept who u are and the reality
4---Action—change to be a better urself

The most touching part is the “Message-Sending” part. Although some of our classmates don’t receive messages, I am really luck to be cared for by my dear friends. After so much suffering both mentally and psychologically, I simply find it too hard to hold on. Suddenly, the warm words, the encouragement come, hug me with the strongest and the kindest supports. A tough girl, like me even couldn’t help trembling in my voice, when showed my sincere thanks to them. I LOVE THEM! ^_^ That’s why I choose to update my blog today!!!

Now I’m strong enough to face all the problems and obstacles. Like tonight, with one exam to prepare for tomorrow, 2 group discussions and 1 report, I have your warm words to help me actively deal with all of the tasks!!!


The second warmest part is the “You are your Lens” learning.

“ The way people see others is a reflection of themselves”.

Yes, if you have a flower in your mind, the people around you are flowers in your eyes. But if you focus on the bad things in your heart, others will be bad persons who do the bad things.

Attitudes decide the altitudes you’ll reach.

Remember, change yourself to the kind of person you want to be, then you will begin to view things in a different way. By the time you change your way of thinking, all the relationships around you will be changed.

To be a thankful and contented person, don’t focus on what we have, instead, focus on how we develop ourselves in the long journey of life.

“Do your best and leave the rest to God”.

Tonight, I’ll make it into practice and efficiently & effectively finish all of my TASKS! Keep adding Energy!


Saturday, April 17, 2010

Cheer Up & Hold On



Learning from the Past “Bad-luck” Events

Recently, I’ve to admit that a lot of unexpected obstacles show up in my life. I did suffer a lot from the mental concern.

As people around me all know, I put all my heart into bringing AIESEC, the world’s largest student org in the world to UM and HC. The whole process was and is hard and tough. A lot of procedures needed to be done then. Just as Professor Udani said , when we met for group consultation that I was kind of lost in that world and did not even paid any efforts to care HC students around or other stuff of mine. How I regret now! My world then was in a great mess, although I knew something was wrong and I didn’t even have time to check the problem with too much AIESEC workload. Later on, it turned out that it was the over-occupied head led to my loss of notebook computer, all of the debit and credit cards and even ID card etc.

It never rain but it pours. It was just as if the bad luck series was not enough to upset me. Rumors of my most trusted core member betraying me nearly driven me crazy. I kept missing my NY time spent with my team and new friends, the pure friendship. I didn’t even want to look back and face the disgusting motives behind or the intrigue. The original vision of my endless efforts in AIESEC was only limited to do something meaningful so that when I grew elder, I might be proud of myself and be proud that my following UM schoolmates would benefit from a dream of mine. I even gave up the right of being manager to the most capable guy, who turned out to be the hero of the rumor to make use of my naïve and easygoing feature…a long story to tell…

All the extrinsic and intrinsic factors killed the happy me inside. This week was filled with sufferings and heartbreak. The exams, projects and assignments ended up in a great disaster. I didn’t see the future of me and wanted to quit.

“Leadership role is really hard because of these complicated human relationships. A leader should not be too naïve and cheated by the cream. However, only when you suffer, will you grow up and clearly see who your real friends that care about you are.”

Just then, my real friends show me their helping hands and helped me out of the big mess and find the optimistic and energetic Giselle back. I’m really thankful for all of you, my dears!!!!!!! I know all of you don’t use blog, but I wanna use blog as a secret blessing place and cross my fingers for you all. I love you dears…
I’ll grow up to be more mature and smile even more warmly when facing hard times with you. And I’ll be right there waiting for you, when you need me, when you are sad or upset.

We should never quit and we’ll be the one who smile till the last minute^_^Y

Sharing from NY-NMUN--Reflections on Conference

Sharing from NUMN in NY




• “Chinese are better at English pronunciation”. Even “not-so-fluent-speaker” like me was praised many times by delegates from Japan, France, and Spain etc. The Japanese even mistook me for exchange students already been in the USA for many years. Therefore, our HC students shouldn’t have worried too much on their adaptability in the States in the coming year^_^ Just have belief in ourselves!



• “Chinese is becoming the world’s common language”. Astonishingly, too many foreign friends can speak too fluent Chinese beyond your imagination! Like living in enchanted world, I met “old China hand” from France, Germany, and Japan. And when my friends and I were joking that we were free to say anything, a French delegate suddenly came out. With a mysterious look wearing on his face, he put his hand on my shoulder and commented “Be careful, I know what you were talking about”. The air immediately went frozen. But, delightfully, we began our conversation and the “national pride” soared/ rocked up in the sky! We were and are really proud of the prosperity of our promising China!!! The increasing number of Chinese speakers proves that China is becoming more and more attractive for other parts of the world. We are growing strong!!! Later in the conference, we went to the permanent mission of the People’s Republic of China to the United Nations, and the head there also showed us statistics and diplomatic anecdotes of our wise domestic diplomats. We were even more confident for our country’s future.



• The States is amazingly “open”. However, this figure emotional hurt us Chinese mentally. For example, Dalai Lama, who aims at separating our nation, is publicized as Nobel Peace Prize Winner, a peace lover. Probably, it is because of political issue between nations. Whatsoever, the stronger our country is, the more influential power will she holds. Only if our country is big and strong enough, can we make our voice heard and win the support and respect from other countries.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Reflection from Wednesday’s Lecture,

Criteria for an excellent student leader:

A student leader SHOULD:

Not be rude.

Not be disrespectful. It means that a good leader should not speak bad words behind others; otherwise, he or she will betray his or her characters.

Not be hurtful. Instead, a good leader should be one who is always willing to giving a helping hand to people in need.

Not be immoral. A good leader should be ethical to possess dignity to be a better person.

“We can never stop until good becomes better and better becomes best”.

“A leader is a position of SERVICE AND BURDEN”.

Life is not always full of sunny days, thus when rainy days arrive, we should face the music. Life is already hard and tough; therefore, we have no reason not to find every way to light up our spirit to enjoy every day of our life. Yes, life is too short for us to regret what we have done. Nothing can be changed, if you only complain about how unlucky you are or how poor your life is. What you can only do is to live every single day to the fullest and keep hope in your mind. Hope is best thing in our life and maybe the best of all. With hope in mind, we can have peace. With hope, we have a belief in the world and people around. With hope, the chaos and sufferings of our life will not be so unacceptable. With hope, we know whatever happens, the world will simply keep moving on.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Another HC Blog of Mine--AIESEC Website

https://sites.google.com/site/aiesecum/um-rec

Sunday, March 14, 2010

My AIESEC @ UM

Do u Wanna be an AIESECer and
Make a difference!!Have an impact!!
Do you want to tap your leadership potential?
Do you want to build friendship with people from all over the world?
Do you want to have oversea work experience before graduation?
Do you want to experience a new and challenging culture in another country?
DO you want to be part of the largest international student organization?
Here we are, to offer you…
A chance to speak to the world
A bridge to connect to the world
A platform to interact with most talented people in the world

更大地發掘自己的領導力潛質?
結交全國和世界各地的朋友?
在大學畢業前有海外工作經歷?
到異國接受新的挑戰感受新的文化?
成為全球最大的學生組織中的一員!
一個與世界對話的機會
一個讓自己與世界接軌的機會
一個結識來自世界各地精英的舞臺
AIESEC @UM!!
Come to our Information Session at 7 p.m. on Mar 16th in Library Auditorium!!
AIESEC澳门大学宣讲会——
2010.3.16 晚7点于图书馆演讲厅

Download information brochure about AIESEC:
2 links here (the 2 PDF documents)
For more information, please go to the following links:
AIESEC International: www.aiesec.org
AIESEC Mainland of China: www.aiesec.cn
AIESEC Hong Kong: www.aiesec.hk

If you have further question, please feel free to contact AIESEC @UM at um.aiesec@gmail.com

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

AIESEC is on the Way

AIESEC (@) and Our Journey towards it
----------------------Celebrate Tomorrow’s Formal Meeting with JC
Special Thanks to Professor Udani and Javier for their great efforts in helping us.

“Life is all about trying to make up Your Mind”.
“You NEVER know until you TRY. You NEVER try unless you really TRY!”

Anything can happen, if you take the chance! My experience with @ is a sound proof.

-Two years ago, a request of establishment of AIESEC was turned down.
-A year ago, an enquiry of AIESEC was refused.
-Now, with my dedicated coworkers: Brian, Amanda, Michael, Crystal and me, the establishment is on the way!
-And not long from now, we are confident that, AIESEC will find its unique place here in UM!

The Key to Success(upcoming):
"If you are not confident in yourself, let alone others". 
At the beginning, I was not confident,because one of my idols-Flora in UM had tried but failed. Others who might initially passionated lose their interests gradually. Many of my senior and junior firends standed behind me and gave me trust and support. Strongly attracted by @ culture and encouraged by peers , I eventually take the role as the "Leader of Leaders". It was really chanllenging and even harder than the negotiation part I undertook later, because all of my core members are top leaders in their own fields. Brian is almost the "hero" I find in UM, Michael is the most talented student leader I've ever met, Crystal is both a specialist in academics and activities, Amanda ....HOW? I was just too shy and my face turned red, when I only had oral talks with them. Then it came Michael's kind words encouraging me to utilize my talents and function as a leader of the group and be confident in myself.
After being together for a long time, I gradually picked up my confidence and even as the key person to assign tasks for individuals. And I could divident the tasks according to the members' talents.

Multi-Task Management
To build up a students' union needs huge mount of time. Even the casual time orginally for sleeping or other planned social activities would have to be postphone. Time management is an art and efficiency can change the way you do things.
We're growing older and the course work is heavier. Only if we manage our time well, can we not sacrafice study time for activity time. To balance the activities and studies is even harder, after I started to realize the self-fulfillment of mine, Brian's, Amanda's, Michael's.

The Spirit of Utter Devotion
For Michael and Brian, they are already in Year Four and have found their jobs or postgraduate schools. The activities are no longer that important for them at this stage. For Amanda and Crystal, they are gonna become seniors, when their time will be devoted into GMAT or Preparation for job-huntings. More activities means less for them. For me, I also will have exchange program in my third year, during which I can manage @'s development as well.
Thus, for all of us, the establishment of AIESEC is more or less the kind our "repayment" we make for our university. We love it and we know the establishment of @ is an inevitable trend. The reason is simple: how can UM develop further, as what our Rector said, withour the world famous student organization?  In other words, a worldknown university can no perform without first-class organizations! So long as we are here, we appreciate our life here in UM and especailly lucky to be one of the larger resource user--HC student. I should and have to do more to payback.

With Professor Udani's help, with our joint-efforts, and the unforgettable encouraging words we collected from the questionaire (it's so touching! Some are like" you are the dream-seaker, and you deserve our support, hold on, guys" ; some are like "we can't wait for your success"; "we need you!").

I cannot say I'm always strong-minded in bringing @ it. I feel hestated sometimes, thinking about my very likely potential bad academic performances with less time left after taking over @. I even feel frustrated when peers and surounders give me so much trust and power, which results in my high preasure because of my afraidness of letting them down. But, now, after collecting so much encouraging feedbacks. I'm confident and will keep diligent in bringing @ to UM! My dear friends, no matter what difficulties are waiting for me, I'll try my best to hold on because of all of you!!!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Wanna International Internship? Here you are.

Giselle's Team Is On the Way to Bring AIESEC to UM~~~




                    What is AIESEC?

AIESEC is the world’s largest student-run organization. Active in over 1700 universities across more than 107 countries and territories, our international platform enables young people to explore and develop their leadership potential for them to have a positive impact in society.In partnership with business and higher education, AIESEC has over 60 years of experience in developing high-potential students into globally minded responsible leaders.



AIESEC's innovative development process consists of unmatched leadership experiences, international opportunities and a global learning environment.


AIESEC uses an innovative approach to engaging and developing today’s youth. By offering opportunities to build extensive international personal networks and explore leadership opportunities, we provide a platform for young people to discover direction and ambition for their futures.
107 Countries and territories

1,700 Universities

35,000 Members

5,500 International Internships

7,700 Leadership Roles

4,000 Partners/sponsors

470 Conferences

60 years of existence


The AIESEC Way - What we envision, the way we do it and our organizational values.

The AIESEC History - In 2009, the organization celebrates 61 years activating leadership.

The AIESEC Experience - The unique experience we offer to our members.

AIESEC Difference - Find out why is unique what AIESEC offers for you

AIESEC Network - Find out more about our global network

Sunday, February 28, 2010

HC Experience Two on Urban-Planning Lecture

HC Experience Life Lesson

On Wednesday, we had our honorable guest speaker given a lecture on urban planning. Ive learned a lot from him.
Frankly speaking, Im an illiterate in the 21st century. The fast development of Internet, engineering almost kill my peaceful, serene life and I have little interest in them. So long before the lecture, Ive psychologically prepared for my sleep in such a lecture focusing on these annoying topics for me.
Unbelievably, it turned out to be a meaty lesson for me.

What Ive learned:
·      Planning is about science and art.
The quality of your plans decides what you can achieve, the efficiency of your daily work and how high the level you can reach.
·      Planning is carried out by People.
Only people can design plans and ONLY PEOPLE can determine the implement of plans and degree of plans excellences.
Just as the example used by Professor Cui, the masterpiece –“efficient parking design, although successfully carried out in many developed European countries is strongly rejected by Macau residents.
It shows that people are the heart of executing. Only if they are persuaded or realize the importance of changing themselves, will plans turn to reality.
·      Creativity is to do the old things in new ways.
·      The society and what weve learned in the ivory tower may be at opposite poles
In society, EQ is more important than IQ; the general knowledge weighs heavier than professional knowledge; even though you sown, you may reaps little.
·The time facing adversity may be the most productive duration of your life.
Throughout Chinese history we can easily find so many famous poets or masterpieces were accomplished during the hardest times of the master. Adversity is the time for people to cool down a little bit, to learn a lesson from it, and then to try the best to make up. It will contribute to the maturity of a person.So next time when we are in difficulties, simple laugh it off and enjoy the potential productive part of our life.

·We are living in a competitive world, struggling for resources and time.
The world is becoming flatter. Walls and fences are replaced by bridges. Globalization and internationalization is the trend of the present age. Competitions are the on the daily agenda. To keep Serene” while being the masters of our life:
·      We should build our core competency and utilize our opportunities.
For example, to have competitive advantages over others for Macau students, we may master Portuguese, taking the advantages of the environment hereformer colony of Portugal.
We should value our time and enrich our life.
·      Life is too short to squander. There are too many things for us to try, which may bring shining, splendid experiences. We have no reason not to make full use of it to maximize the value of life.

Sunday, February 21, 2010

HC experience--Drawing a Picture of Yourself

Reflections on HC Activity--Drawing a Picture of Yourself


• Brief Introduction of the Activity:

Every day, we look at ourselves in the mirror. These faces in front of us are those we can’t be too familiar with. We may think we know ourselves quite well. But, close your eyes and draw yourself with a pencil now. What will happen?

• Outcomes:

“Other people’s faces” or even cannot be recognized as “face”.

• Reflections:

1. We are not really so familiar with the real ourselves as we imagined we were. The reality may come out totally different from the thoughts in our minds.

Interpretation:

a> There is room to grow, the room for us to discover the real us inside our souls and develop them.

b> The things we firmly believed may not turn out to be right. We should learn to be more rational instead of emotional

2. Even ourselves cannot one hundred percent understand ourselves, let alone others.

Interpretation:

The conflicts between us and others are totally understandable because of the aforementioned findings. So when come across misunderstandings, we should be more tolerant and serene. Try to find the problem and show the “HOST” you to your friends or even your “enemies”. Let the facts prove everything. (Of course, this is in case you were not in fault)

3. The feeling with your open eyes is dissimilar.

Interpretation:

With your eyes open, everything is taken for granted. While, when sometimes, you have to close your eyes or face a dark, unknown world, fear and horror will come along. Facing with the hard part of life, remember: Be brave, hold the paintbrush in your hands, and draw the colorful blueprint of your life with your own efforts. You’ll be proud of yourself!

Sunday, February 7, 2010

Powerful Speeches

  

HC Experience On Sky-Walking

"Courage is not the absence of fear,but rather the judgeness that someting is more important that fear".


    Yesterday, we had our first retreat in the second semester of HC Program togeter with a once-in-a lifetime experience we'll never forget,especailly for me-a former"poltroon". It is the first time for me to bravely open arms to the possiblities and take chance to start of something "incredible" for myself.

    Long before the retreat, I'd prepared to "wave goodbye to the world and get a heartattact and pass away".Althogh, in the personality test, I rank very high in the area of challeging new things, I tend to get rid of the physical challenges--the most important reason of my obesity.Throughourt my life as a student, PE is totally a disaster for me. I "hate" doing almost all kinds of sports and don't understand why others "feed on" it. Same case when I enter plearseground,the trough tickets don't fit me well, cause the only two games I played are merry-go-round and ferris wheel--the most peaceful ones.I was the most "conservative" child compared with peers.The idea of pushing such a "I" into doing the most hazardous put myself into a situation--not knowing whether to laugh or cry. I even thought of quitting the retreat so that friends may not know this secret coward part of a used-to be tough girl.

    "To participate or not to participate" becomes a big problem for me. However,more mature and rational than before, I should be brave to face the music and not let people who love me down  by overcoming the strongest enemy for be to grow up--physical fear to eventually be strong enough as a future leader.

    After the honestly sharing with friends my fearness in the "line game" in the "Freedom Writers" and encouraged by peers in the team-buiding activities, I began to follow the "Population Effects".It seemed taht we were going to conquer the obstacles together--I'm not alone! Right then,as the first group to experience the skywalk, my judgement whispered to me, the most important thing was not to fear but rather to set roles for friens who were watching us and psychologically as scared as us. Professor Udani kept supporting me by asking whether I was ok.

    Actually, I was the first to put one foot at the edge of the road and looked down and around. The scenery was amazingly fantastic and the feeling is really "cool". Believe or not,I even regreted not experience slipping over the rope and was eager for bungee jumping a lot. I'm still confident that if I was given the chance, I would not hesitate to jump down and enjoy the feeling of getting close to nature and the real myself.

    It's clear that the height and the efforts you put to reach that level determine what you can enjoy then moment on that stage. For me, if I got escaped from the retreat, or if our HC team did not create an atmosphere of sharing and learning together, I would never ever had the courage to temporarily leave fear lone and focus on what I should do instead of what I want to do.

    Thanks to our HC team and Professor Udani's special designed training, I learned that you will never know until you try and you never try until you really try. If you add your own efforts in the long journey of life,unexpected pleasure and experiences will along, which may even change your understanding of life. Whether you learn and grow up simply depend on whether you allow yourself to pursue.

    Although, I missed the chance of rock climbing in order for our team to gain better grades, I did appreciate the sense of belonging,when our team coorperately cheered our team members up and offered directions for them.

    It is the first time for me to try something really new to me and it won't be the last one! I'm loving HC! My dear friends, I'm proud of your performances!