Today, Professor Udani showed us some collection of the students’ expectation at the beginning of this semester.
The expectation has three levels:
Cognitive Level
--It is more related to the minds development of us. Each one of us is supposed to give reflections of what they are performing or improving and maybe share it through blogs. In this way, we will be able to look back from the past and keep growing.
Affective Level
--The leading question: How do u use your emotions? Are dominated by ur emotions, or u r so lucky to be the master of emotions?
These questions embarrassed me, when professor looked into my eyes and said, “u know I can easily know some of your emotions. They are just on ur face”. Oh my, indeed, I am the person, who doesn’t hide the all of my emotions. Sometime, even though I know the side effects, that is, leaving a poor impression of myself, I just let the emotion go. I am the one that is more likely to be impulsive. From the start point, I want to become more rational. But now…I still act as a child…What a shame on me…I have to change…T^T…
Behavioral Level
I swear I’ll put my feet on the ground!
As for improving communication skills, which the majority of us desire, it may be achieved on 4 aspects:
1—Reflection---the feeling or the gaining from music, videos
2---Awareness----aware of who u are
3—Acceptance---accept who u are and the reality
4---Action—change to be a better urself
The most touching part is the “Message-Sending” part. Although some of our classmates don’t receive messages, I am really luck to be cared for by my dear friends. After so much suffering both mentally and psychologically, I simply find it too hard to hold on. Suddenly, the warm words, the encouragement come, hug me with the strongest and the kindest supports. A tough girl, like me even couldn’t help trembling in my voice, when showed my sincere thanks to them. I LOVE THEM! ^_^ That’s why I choose to update my blog today!!!
Now I’m strong enough to face all the problems and obstacles. Like tonight, with one exam to prepare for tomorrow, 2 group discussions and 1 report, I have your warm words to help me actively deal with all of the tasks!!!
The second warmest part is the “You are your Lens” learning.
“ The way people see others is a reflection of themselves”.
Yes, if you have a flower in your mind, the people around you are flowers in your eyes. But if you focus on the bad things in your heart, others will be bad persons who do the bad things.
Attitudes decide the altitudes you’ll reach.
Remember, change yourself to the kind of person you want to be, then you will begin to view things in a different way. By the time you change your way of thinking, all the relationships around you will be changed.
To be a thankful and contented person, don’t focus on what we have, instead, focus on how we develop ourselves in the long journey of life.
“Do your best and leave the rest to God”.
Tonight, I’ll make it into practice and efficiently & effectively finish all of my TASKS! Keep adding Energy!
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